Teaching

For the second time recently, I have been asked to give a sexual lesson to a male acquaintance. I find myself both flattered and rather surprised. But it reminded me it was time to start a blog, and maybe share some knowledge and experience here. So for this first essay, I'll tell you a little bit about both requests. The first in detail as it has happened, the second only in passing because I am still considering it.

First a man from abroad who is inexperienced sexually, though in his early 40s, asked me to show him literally the anatomy of the female body- especially the genital area. He had become somewhat enamored by a woman he had met and wished for more knowledge before pursuing her. He and I were, and are still not lovers by the traditional (or Clinton) definitions. But I was intrigued by his request. I met him at his apartment, and he made me tea. I never got to drink a sip of it. As this was not romantic, we did not kiss before he dropped to his knees and asked if he could pull up my skirt. He spent quite a few minutes just touching me through my simple cotton underwear. He seemed to revel in their texture.
Finally we entered his bedroom and removed our clothing. I laid down on my back and split my legs so he could position himself close enough to get a good view. I used my fingers to split my bare outer lips and discuss the structures of the vulva, clitoris, and vaginal canal itself. I let him use his fingers then to explore the same territory, and showing him a few tricks about strokes and how to find the G-spot. (yes I promise a future essay on all of that)

Then using my fingers atop of his, I showed him how to make me come by manual stimulation. It was the first female orgasm he had ever seen live. I was both honored, somewhat turned on, and sad/glad for him. While he masturbated himself, I took over and let him watch me come another time. Afterwards, I showed him how to kiss gently and seductively. I slept against him, and headed out in the morning as we had planned. We have not really spoken since, but he promises me an update on his pursuit.

The second request is from a man I have not even met yet. He and I met at an online site, and he wishes to learn about oral sex- giving good oral sex to a woman to be specific. I am delaying any decisions on that one til we really meet. :) But the next post will be about some of the books out there an videos about giving oral sex.